I've lived in Marlboro my entire life. I have a 9-yr old boy myself. So I know where you're coming from.
As for commuting, to be sure, I would suggest you use the NJ Turnpike/Parkway Authority Toll Calculator which can be found at http://www.state.nj.us/turnpike/toll-rates.html
As for homes in Marlboro, there are definitely a few good homes out there in around the range you are looking. Give me a call or shoot me an email @ firstname.lastname@example.org; and I'd be happy to send them to you to review. You can also search the entire MLS through my IDX site at: www.anthonyjankowski.kwrealty.com
Anthony Jankowski, GRI, CRS, CRB
Keller Williams Realty West Monmouth | 50-B Route 9 North | Morganville | NJ 07751
(732) 740-9400 direct
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