Have you had a chance to view the residences at the Ritz yet? It's much easier to get some of the questions you are interested in answered when you are actually in the building viewing what is available. There are plenty of amenities that you may view as a benefit to you and your children.
My recommendation would to be to familiarize yourself with these different neighborhoods, and then prioritize your needs for a home. I am fairly certain that you would be able to find a great home in all of these neighborhoods, so it makes life easier when you are comfortable with where you are going to be.
I have included a link to a website that might be helpful. If I can be of further assistance, please don't hesitate to contact me.
I hope this information was helpful!
Hillary Nash McAuley
Nash Holdings Co.
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