Thanks for your service to our country from one veteran to another. The answer is Yes. If you can qualify with your income, your husband SSI grossed up 25% and without the current job income you would be good. Other than that your husband will need to secure employment and be employed for at least 30 days before the Lender will proceed.
I would be delighted to provide you with some mortgage options, (this does not require us pulling your credit) that will allow you to make the best decision for your family.
Phone (469) 347-3572