There are a number of wonderful areas in Western New York. You'll find most of the suburban areas will meet the requirements you have listed above. Some of the larger, more well known areas include Amherst, Clarence, Lancaster, Orchard Park, and East Aurora.
If you would like more information about any of them or are interested in hearing about the available housing inventory, please let me know. I'd be happy to help.
Call me anytime at 716-345-5251.