I would go a little bit northand into Austin. Some smaller towns and rural areas may not be as friendly. San Marcos is a college town so that probably helps, but I would move to Austin. Austin is known as "The blue dot in the red state" if you know what I mean. There are several very gay friendly neighborhoods in Austin, Travis Heights, Zilker, Barton Hills, Northwest Hills to name a few. I would be happy to help you find the perfect neighborhood. If you like, I can send you some references from past gay and lesbian clients. Please let me know what I can do to help you make the move and good luck!