I'm sorry you are having trouble.
As stated, there are programs for "nonwarrantable" condominiums if that's your case plus, depending on the number of units, FHA has suspended some investor concentration requirements temporarily. It would have been helpful to know more about the condominium project - number of units, number of owner occupied units among those and the name of the condominium project. You would best have a discussion with your mortgage person about this or, if you wish, with me.
Best wishes for a great 2011!
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