HI again Sandy
I just read your explanation of your situation. Even I am confused by all that is gong on in your life!
I am curious, though..........You didn't ask the agent how much business she did prior to listing with her?
OK, so you need to move forward......and soon!
The range of prices you were given isn't very broad - around a 4% differential - they all seem to point to a list price in the 350,000 ish range - it's hard to fine tune a price, as this is not an exact science, and the market is so unstable, but in this market, I suggest you list on the more conservative side (staged or otherwise). Obviously, I haven't seen your home, not do I know your area, but if the numbers ranged from 345,000 - 359,000 - stratigically, I'd go with the lower end of the range to encourage more showings. Staging will help, even if you do it yourself.
Get yourself organized. Have a list of questions to ask each agent. When you are done interviewing, take a look at the answers. Also, look at the listings online that the agents already have. See who has the maximum number of photos, and GOOD photos.( I can never undertsand why agents post dark, poor shots). Do all the above, and It should help point you in the right direction.