I do not know your details, after reading my post feel free to contact me for additional information if you'd rather not discuss publicly.
The short answer here is that there are some concerns that come up with home owners who find themselves in a short sale situation. In your case is the second a HELOC? (Home Equity Line of Credit)? Lenders are leary of writing off properties where home owners have taken a second and "cashed out". To the lender it appears that the owner "took" the $140,200 and is either hiding it or simply spent it.
Understandbly if they lender thinks that they are entitled to "lose less" the lenders carrying the seconds can be very uncooperative. This is compounded by the fact that if they do write it off, you are on the hook for a nice 1099 for not only the $140,200. but the foregiveness on the first mortgage. That new federal law only covers purchase money loans, not re-finance loans.
This is not a commerical, however we have found many home owners with the same circumstances and there are legal means to "cure" some of these issues. I spoke with a client over the weekend who is upside down on over twenty properties and she explained that it was only after getting an attorney was she able to get the lender to cooperate. That is all well and good, but forget the lender, worry about Uncle Sam and the IRS...which she still has to tangle with in order to save her situation.
You need a solution that will encompass three things:
1. Get your lenders to agree to let you sell short
2. Avoid the IRS tax penalities on the forgiveness
3. Get your credit dings cleaned up so you can move on.
This is just my opinion, however I think in most cases that exceeds that most Realtors can do. For further information feel free to contact me regarding your circumstances and we will try to get you the help you need.