Hi, Guy... You've become quite the regular on here! Though you haven't signed anything committing you to your relative, it would be nice to keep the relationship an amicable one.
One thought would be to have your family member "introduce" you to your next agent--even if you've already chosen that agent (I know you're a big fan of Erin, for example) and ask the new agent to pay a referral fee for doing so. In this market, I think it's likely that an agent would be willing to pay a reasonable referral fee--and your current agent might be as willing to part ways in the business relationship as you are.
Whatever you do, please be honest and have a good talk with your family member. I'd recommend this to anyone who's unhappy with their current agent, but it's doubly important with a friend or relative. Sometimes an agent isn't aware that the relationship isn't working, now's your chance to explain how you're feeling. If you don't think there's any way to "fix" the current relationship, then say so.
Best of luck to you and I hope things all work out!
Rob McQuade, ABR, REALTORÂ®
McMartin Realty | 2031 K St Ste 100 | Sacramento, CA 95811-4253
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