Well, friend, contrary to the previous response, and as a resident of the Chathams for over 21 years, I have found that people are people, some snooty, some not, some overweight, others thin, tall ones, short ones: I think you get my drift. There is no behavioral difference between folks from the two towns which share the same name. Funny though, the closer to walking distance to the train station in the borough, the more desirable the homes, and, thus, the more folks are willing to pay (overpay, some would say) for such a geographical advantage. There are limited parking spaces at the train station and no longer a jitney to ferry folks back and forth to outlying neighborhoods. Desire, my friend, is in the eyes of the beholder, don't you think? Come take a look for yourself and determine what is best for you and the family. My pleasure to show you around.