This is a tricky question. It is all about you and your family. I suggest making a list of pros and cons for both locations and both builders and then rank them in the order of importance to you and your family.
Example: If one location is closer to your child's school or you and your wife's job; ask how important are those commutes for you, then rank it on a scale of 1 through 5.
Be sure to be 100% honest with yourself :)
Additionally, be sure that you are working with a Realtor. Although agents who work in the model home for the builders are really good and what they do, at the end of the day they are employed by the builder. You need someone looking out for your best interest.