I wanted to see if you have found a home that meets your needs. I have lived in Cary since 1999.
You mentioned a community pool, many neighborhoods have this feature. Amberly in Cary has a couple swimming pools, with a number of additional amenities. The community has homes in a variety of price ranges. There are single family homes in the $230s on up. It is close to RTP, in case that is convenient for you.
I am an agent with RE/MAX United and would love the opportunity to show you homes with amenities!
Please let me know if I can be of assistance.
Mary Ann Wilson