Just as the first responder said, find another lender. Go after several and find someone that is quick to respond so you do not have to sit in a line. In December my client signed the contract and was a FHA and in 17 days my client was in his home. Of course my firm has an in house lender who communicates with us and is very easy to reach. . I would imagine the real estate professional that is your buyer's agent would help you get this taken care of. I certainly would and do for my clients, actually we are on top of everything to be proactive so we do not see this sort of issue. Good Luck.
Deborah Rigsbee Miller
Coldwell Banker Howard Perry and Walston