In Richmond, many of the condos within the city are developed using the historic tax credit program. This program more or less prevents any large scale customization. Secondly, the Richmond VA condo market has not added many new projects since the middle 2000's meaning the chance to customize has really been nil, except for a few upscale smaller projects.
If you would also consider a town home, the Huntt's Row (Fan District of Richmond VA) http://hunttsrow.com will allow buyers to do significant customization.
If you are interested in knowing more about the condo market in Richmond along with the back story to almost every project, you can find everything you need here - http://richmondvacondos.net
Thanks and good luck searching