It's not easy during Rush Hour. I would recommend you take a look at one of our planned communities in Isle of Wight County and Northern Suffolk. (Founders Pointe and Graystone at Eagle Harbor in the Carrollton area of Isle of Wight). The Riverfront is less than 10 minutes away in Northern Suffolk.
All three have resort style amenities, a clubhouse, pool, playgrounds, and walking trails. The commute is easy and in areas with low taxes. Please let me know if you have any questions.
Thanks, and good luck!