Hello God's Girl,
Before you report the agent to any agency, make sure their actions really are unethical. Contact the California Department of Real Estate they can advise you on what actions are unethical.,If your agent has actually acted in an unethical manner you can report them to their employing broker, local association or department of real estate.
Now to being rude. Some agents are jus matter of fact. They do not sugar coat things and are not warm and fuzzy. This can often be seen as rude. Also if the agent has a sharp accent they way they pronounce words when speaking can be seen as rude when they are not being rude at all. I happen to cater to my clients and I can tell you there have been times where I know I was taken advantage of because I am so attentive.
I am sorry you seem to be unhappy with your agent. Please do not let this experience turn you off from the home buying process. I am sure you will find an agent you are equally yoked with.
Kawain Payne, Realtor
Prudential California Realty