If the bank already has ownership of your property, you could be contacted any day. I'd have my bags packed and ready to go, if I were you.
Have you found a new home yet to move to? If you cooperate in vacating the premises they may offer you some incentive, but ethically, you do not own the appliances, cabinets or anything attached to the house, including fixtures. The washer, dryer and refrigerator are your personal items but microwave, dishwasher, oven, etc. are not.
Leave the home in good condition for the sake of your neighbors property values and your own pride. Removing any of these items is theft, and a bad way to end a very unpleasant circumstance.
I'm sorry for your situation but you will recover. It's a shame that you weren't able to short sale your home and control the situation a little better but as it is, look forward to a new beginning. Good luck to you!