With all due respect, asking a question then telling us how we should or should not answer is not quite fair fame.
From your two posts, you seem way more interested in perks and pluses than good quality service. This is unfortunately a reflection on your values.
There are many times over the years when I've offered a rebate to clients to keep a deal together. But if all people care about up front is a rebate, then i will pass on the opportunity to work with them.
You've got to care about more than just perks. Buying a home is a big deal and you need quality services.