I just wanted to add that you sound like a very nice gentleman.....you're concerned about your 2nd agent, and yet still concerned about handling things properly in regard to the 1st agent.
I am just curious as to why you stopped working with the 1st agent?
At this point, you have alerted both agents to the stiuation, so that was very upfront of you. I wouldn't worry - the agents will work things out between them.
No one owns a client, and if you are more comfortable with agent #2, then by all means work with him or her.
Your biggest concern now should be finding the home that's right for you!
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