The commute, in my opinion, is not the deciding factor for which area is better suited for you and your family.
Both areas have wonderful attributes and depending on your wants and needs you can narrow down the most important for you. I could help you by finding out what suits your family best and would love to show you the areas and their unique differences, if you are not working with another realtor.
All my best,
Ebby Halliday REALTORS