A few years ago, almost no one had even heard of a tiny house. But now? Instagram-ready photos of them are everywhere, millions watch shows about them and tens of thousands attend events to get a peek inside. But these mini homes are more than just eye candy. Across the nation, more than a dozen cities have become officially tiny-home friendly and 50-plus communities of tiny homes have cropped up—everything from intimate backyard co-ops to full-on urban developments. The tiny-house life has developed into a legit lifestyle choice for people who want to spend more time on their passions than on making mortgage payments.
We should know. After building our 130-square-foot tiny home on wheels in 2015, we headed out on our Tiny House Expedition, a two-and-a-half-year road trip to work on a documentary and community-education project about the tiny home movement. Becoming temporary residents of so many of these tight-knit mini-neighborhoods along the way has been a crash course in what it’s like to live in a tiny house community. Paring down your shoe collection is really just the start. It’s a total rethink of daily life and what it means to be a neighbor.
1. Everyone gets fed.
A resident of Tiny Lots on the Prairie grills kabobs for a potluck. (All videos by Christian Parsons)
Recently, we were cooking a big pot of chili at a temporary tiny-home community we’d formed outside Fort Worth, Texas, when we discovered we were missing peppers, onions—and cornbread! No problem. After a quick pow-wow at the campfire with our neighbors, the ingredients were found to finish up a batch of chili and fixings big enough to share with all. This “Hey, can I borrow a cup of sugar” culture is alive and well among the tiny-house crowd.
Even those disinclined to cook get in on the potluck culture. At Llamalopolis, a cluster of tiny homes and Airstreams in downtown Las Vegas, neighbors use Slack to send out impromptu food announcements like “I have dumplings to share!” and “I just ordered pizza; come have a slice!”
2. You’ll get to know your neighbors well—really well.
At Llamalopolis, it always feels like a party or a jam session could break out at any moment.
Tiny community life is intimate. Interactions with your neighbors are not a once-in-awhile wave across the street. They are daily and up close. It might be saying hello as you come out your front door in your pajamas, or a chat as you carry groceries through the community’s pedestrian-only entrance. The beauty of these “collisions,” as Llamalopolis founder Tony Hsieh put it to us during our two-week stay at his Las Vegas community, is that they tend to result in a welcoming atmosphere and more shared experiences. “And for me,” he added, “experiences are more meaningful than stuff.”
In a tiny-house community, you’ve got a built-in support group right there—people who are ready to pick you up when you’ve had a bad day, give you a shoulder to cry on by the fire, or just binge-watch your favorite show on Netflix with you.
But the high level of cooperation required by this life can be intense, too, and if personalities don’t mesh the vibe of the community can become toxic. Austin LiveWork is one unfortunate example of what can happen when the chemistry is off. In this tiny home community near Austin, Texas, several residents frequently butted heads with the founder over the community’s vision and who was responsible for which maintenance duties. Eventually, someone filed a code violation report, and the community was shut down this past summer.
3. There’s always room for one more pet.
Marley and Triton wander freely in the Las Vegas community of Llamalopolis.
It may seem counter-intuitive given how ruthless tiny house dwellers have to be about, say, how many pairs of jeans they can keep. But most of them find a way to make room for pets. Every community we’ve visited has dogs and cats—and we’ve also met pet chickens, goats, horses, and alpacas. Open roaming space and designated animal areas are to a tiny home community what a gym might be to a city apartment building—a must-have amenity and a place to gather. Often, pets are free to roam the grounds, a joyful sight for pet lovers with seriously squashed indoor play space. The dogs who live at Llamalopolis in Las Vegas have become used to the alpacas that have the run of the place, but I never quite adjusted. I could never tell whether we were cool or at odds—especially when one of the alpacas nudged my hat and I whipped my head around to find myself nose to nose with a creature known to spit.
4. Life happens outdoors.
Chris and Malissa Tack, of Tiny Tack House in Everett, Wash., tend the garden in their vegan community.
With “living rooms” so small they can almost touch both walls at the same time, tiny house types are very big into outdoor living. In a typical setup, tiny homes cluster around a large yard with a fire pit and garden, which residents use as an extension of their living space. It’s common to see people reading email by the fire pit, rolling out a yoga mat in the yard, or catching up on laundry on their porch with a hand-cranked washing machine. These everyday moments become a chance for impromptu conversation, and that’s just how tiny home community members like it.
5. Tiny houses are like puppies—everyone is drawn to them.
Tiny homes at Going Places include privacy hacks like static-cling frosting on windows that face a neighbor.
People’s fascination with tiny homes means frequent looky-loos—cars passing by very slowly or even stopping so the passengers can approach for a closer look. In a tiny home, unless your curtains are drawn, there’s basically nowhere to hide from unwanted visitors. At Orlando Lakefront, a tiny house community in a revitalized 1950s RV park in Orlando, Florida’s, College Park neighborhood, one resident told us about the time he was cooking dinner and looked up to see a stranger peering in his window. To head off intrusions, the residents decided to host a monthly open house where the curious could check out the tiny homes. They also amended the pop-by-anytime culture that’s common among tiny-home neighbors and developed a text-before-dropping-by system instead.
Going Places residents build a gate at their monthly work party
Tiny-home living comes with a unique list of house problems. Ask most people about dysfunctional propane tankless water heaters and you’ll get a blank stare, but tiny home neighbors can relate to each other’s esoteric house projects 100 percent. They’re also quick to help out, because they know it won’t be long before they need a hand. During our stay at Tiny Lots on the Prairie in Decatur, Texas, we heard about the time when resident Cheryl Huff couldn’t finish painting her house due to an injury and her neighbors stepped in to take care of it. Everyday random acts of kindness are common, too, like grabbing a neighbor’s trash when you’re taking out your own. Joining a community also means pitching in to maintain common areas. This is handled various ways. At Going Places, a backyard community in Portland, Oregon, residents gather once a month for a work party, figuring that nothing makes for quick work like multiple hands. At another community we visited on a ranch outside Bellingham, Wash., everyone agrees to work a set number of hours and chooses between being paid for this time or applying it toward their rent.
7. Your tiny house neighbors become your family.
An impromptu evening of storytelling during our stay at The Commune in central Oregon.
Though people join the tiny house life for lots of different reasons, you’re bound to have a lot in common with your neighbors. Add in the tiny-home custom of generosity and frequent conversation, and you have a recipe for an unusually tight-knit community. That really shows in the family vibe at many gatherings we’ve been to. At The Commune, an informal community near Sisters, Oregon, artist Rod Frederick and his tiny neighbors worked together to craft a whimsical sculpture garden among the ponderosa pines, with wandering pathways, waterfalls, and an open-air treehouse. Now it’s become a place where neighbors share meals as a family would, a place where we personally had many intimate conversations around the fire during our stay. That kind of bond is not unusual. Earlier this fall, en route to the Florida Tiny House Festival, we spent a week at Tiny Lots on the Prairie outside Dallas/Fort Worth. Current, past, and future residents all showed up for a community potluck and game night, featuring a lively spoons game. It felt like a family reunion, complete with playful ribbing and a healthy sense of competition. Molly McNown, who has moved away to be closer to her job, was there on one of her frequent visits to what she calls her “soul group.” Lina Menard, a tiny house design/build consultant, described life at her Portland, Oregon, tiny-house community, Going Places, this way: “There’s always someone to ask how your day was, and if you want to talk about it.” What better definition of family is there?
Find Out More About These Tiny Home Communities
The Commune, near Sisters, Oregon
Going Places, Portland, Oregon
Llamalopolis, Las Vegas, Nevada
Orlando Lakefront, Orlando, Florida
Tiny Lots on the Prairie, near Dallas/Fort Worth