This should be a matter of public record. Have you checked with the county that the property is located in?
http://www.sdcounty.ca.gov/sdhcd/ ... more
You MUST go to a real estate attorney immediately.
What you are trying to do can't be done easily. She wants money and wants to be off the deed but you can't a ... more
1/3 of $300k would be $100k.
I have no idea how it works with self employed. I just keep seeing that ... more
You need to talk to a lender to get the answer to your question.
Best of luck,
Mark & Kari Shea