Hi SJSeller,
There's an old saying that 98% of lawyers give the other 2% a bad name. The reputation of realtors isn't much better and your experience reinforces this perception. This is really unfortunate, as I have found that there are plenty of ethical, hardworking, competent Realtors around. After 25 years in another career, I began in real estate a few years ago with some concern about the colleagues that I would be associating with, for the same reasons you stated. I must say that I was pleasantly surprised with the high level professionalism and integrity of the agents in my office, which included a wide range of newcomers and seasoned agents. Outside of my company, I've found some agents as you describe, but again I have dealt with many competitors with whom I've developed a mutual respect. Over the past few years much was said about the housing bubble, but the bigger problem was that the boom years resulted in an agent bubble. Many agents got into the business for the "easy money" and really weren't qualified for the attention to detail, communication, and follow-up work required to make a transaction run smoothly and close on time. Real estate is a very hard job in the best of times, and now that the market is struggling, lazy and incompetent agents can't survive, so you should have better luck dealing with those of us that are willing and able to provide excellent service in both good and bad times.
It sounds like this bad experience is behind you, so I assume you are wondering how you can avoid this next time, or perhaps you are hoping that this can be a warning for others.
First and foremost when hiring an agent, or anyone else for that matter, trust your instincts. If you are not already a good judge of character, then work on it. It's good to get referrals from friends, but then you also have to judge their character, as well as their motivation for the referral. If it's their cousin or their hairdresser's boyfriend, you might want to look further. It's also good to ask the agent for referrals from past customers.
Secondly, no matter how good the promises sound, get them in writing. Ask "What are you going to do for me?", get a written commitment and hold them accountable to perform. For instance, I, and many agents in my office, subscribe to a program called Quality Service Certified (QSC) which provides a written guarantee for either home buyers or home sellers.
Finally, make an assessment of the type of brokerage he/she represents. Is it independent, a small office of a huge franchise, or a large brokerage with multiple offices? Who does the agent answer to? If it's an independent, it may be themself. If it's a large company, you should be able to contact the managing broker in his/her office, and if necessary, their regional manager. A reputable company will not allow an individual agent to hurt the reputation of the company.
In closing, congratulations on closing on your new home. I hope it provides you many years of comfort and enjoyment and the memory of this bad experience fades away. If I can help you or anyone you know, please feel free to contact me.
Take care,
Roland - Tue Jul 22 2008, 17:11