It sounds like Raleigh would be perfect for you. The airport isn't more than 15 - 40 minutes from almost anywhere in Raleigh and it is an international airport which means more nonstop flights. Raleigh boasts some of the best schools in the country, and I really enjoy living in Raleigh. I posted a link at the end of this answer that lists numerous accolades that Raleigh has won including best places for business, education, jobs, low crime rate, and lifestyle. We are a little over an hour from the beach and about the same from the mountains. I am a mortgage professional in the area who is very familiar with the neighborhoods in and around Raleigh. If you are intersted, I would love to help you every step of the way, from helping you secure a mortgage to introducing you to my personal netowork of real estate professionals who can help you find the perfect house and answer any questions you may have. Please email me or give me a call at 800-784-6889 x.222 if you would like to get started. I can walk you through the process and help you find a neighborhood that offers the best schools (Raleigh has some great ones!), best parks, and other amenities you are interested in.
The link to the accolades is below:
http://www.visitraleigh.com/media/about_raleigh/accolades - Tue Jun 24 2008, 07:02