Thanks to all for the replies, we are unfamiliar with this area (new to Belle Mead too in fact) , so the names of places to look into are particularly helpful. Will hopefully be contacting some of you in the coming weeks to see what we can find
The older home question is appropriate esp when you look at our budget, but we moved from a state where the homes were (much) less expensive, and had lovingly built a new home now lost to relocation, so it is especially hard on the wife and kids, missing the new kitchen, playhouse, etc. Maybe if we cannot absolutely find anything we may have to rethink the situation, but don't want to go there as yet.
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