Hi Susan,
We've been in the same boat as you looking for a house this year in Walnut Creek or Lamorinda. I am glad you are moving to the area to get a better feel for where you may want to settle down. Walnut Creek is safe... Safer than being in San Francisco or Oakland.
I wish I could email you privately. Coming from MDR also, I understand what you are talking about regarding the differences in houses and the neighborhoods. We found parts of Walnut Creek to be beyond suburban... too RURAL for us. We were surprised to be turned off by the Walnut Heights area and Alamo; even though those are supposed to be the "more affluent" areas, they were just not right for us. Too hilly, too rural, and not much of a community feel. We felt the neighborhood around Buena Vista Elementary was too transitional.... Rudgear area was a disappointment also. We also looked in Orinda and Moraga, but didn't like it that much... felt very isolated. Actually, commute to Walnut Creek from Rockridge and Montclair is faster than the commute from Moraga. I timed it a bunch of times during commuter time. Don't worry. Walnut Creek is pretty safe. Southern Californians tend to drive nicer cars because of a SoCal culture thing, so don't let the age and brand of your neighbor's cars worry you. The NorCal culture is to get a practical car that is fuel efficient and will last a while. Did you know you can put over 200,000 miles on a Toyota Camry and it still runs like new???
Architecturally, we really liked Crocker Highlands and Upper Rockridge in Oakland, but were not too sure about the school situation there. Narrowing it down, we concentrated our home search on the Upper Rockridge part of Oakland, the Burton Valley area of Lafayette, and the Northgate and Tice Valley areas of Walnut Creek. We looked at over 70 homes. In the end, we decided to buy a house in Northgate. Our kids will be able to walk to K-12 schools, the public library, the swim club, the park, ride their bikes on flat wide streets to their friends'. Everyone on our court has little kids. I get the sense that there is a sense of community. I know... traffic on Ygnacio Valley Rd, and honestly, at first, we didn't consider that neighborhood because of what we had heard. But in the long run, the commute from Northgate to downtown Walnut Creek is much shorter that the commute from San Francisco. Schools are also much better than San Francisco or Oakland public schools. No commute will be as bad as sitting in traffic on the 405 in Los Angeles! Its all relative. Traffic on Ygnacio Valley Rd is not that bad at all. There are lots of kid-friendly activities in the area. After you have your baby, you should check out My Gym on Oak Grove. My kids really love going there. There are also lots of trails to go stroller walking. This was a big reason why we wanted to move to a flat neighborhood. Good luck. Maybe I'll run into you at My Gym or on one of the trails with your stroller. - Wed Mar 26 2008, 22:24