Every lender is different, and what loans they do are different. Just as you would shop around for a home, you should shop around for a lender. Whenever I first got into real estate (3 yrs ago), I encountered lenders like that. Thankfully, I had already done my homework so the advice had 'red flags' going off all over the place & I knew to walk away.
If your husband is eligible for a VA loan, why not go that route? I mean I could be wrong, but I thought 629 & 667 were the higher end, or at least middle of the road credit scores, so I'm not sure why you wouldn't be eligible. There are still “low doc” loans aren't there? (any agents want to answer this) Meaning, you wouldn't have to show tax returns, though I think you need a good credit score, so I may be wrong.
I still wouldn't suggest rent to own but would suggest you look for owner financing. With the market being the way it is, there are a lot of sellers doing owner financing because they just need out of that cost ASAP. I can probably help point you in that direction, and save you all the headaches. No since in wasting your time with properties or financing that doesn't fit with your needs. - Wed Jul 8 2009, 11:10