I understand you concerns completely I have a nephew in NJ who is mildly autistic. Here is a website that allows you to research and compare schools:
What I also would recommend is setting up a time where you could personnally meet the teacher in each school for your child's classroom to see who you are the most comfortable with. If possible try to find other parents with special needs children to get their adivce and what they like and don't like regarding the school their child goes to.
I will ask around as to what resources are available and ask for recommemdations. Please feel free to call if have any other questions or if I can help assistance in any way. My cell phone number 479-633-3708
Just wanted to check in and see if you luck obtaining information regarding schools for your son. I would be glad to answer any other questions or provide any other information, so if you need anything please feel free to call me at 479-633-3708.
Have a wonderful Tuesday,