I hope things get better for you! Thats a tough spot to be in. I would agree though, if she is not willing to sign, then you will need to take that up with an attorney and the courts. I dont know any attorneys in Alliance, but John Malone is a wonderful one here in Waco. Wish you the best!
I believe there is a way to force a sale, but you are going to need the assistance of an attorney, which of course just costs the two of you in the end. You of course can leave your share of the house to whomever you wish, and she will have to deal with your heirs when she wants to sell it, so it will gain her little (unless of course she is your heir).... more