Our children attended Tabb Schools but many our our friends' children attended Grafton. We even had a next door neighbor move to upper York so her daughter could attend Bruton because there were certain classes that were suitable. Both area great schools and have their own draw. Visit the York County website http://www.yorkcountyschools.org and make an appointment with a school advisor/counselor. At Tabb, our children had the same counselor throught their 4 years. She progressed when they progreesed. It was helpful and she was able to get to know their strengths and weeknesses (they were two totally different learners). Grafton may have the same policy. Best of luck. I know its stressful. I would definately not make a decision until going to the shools and talking with someone qualified there.