To find out more about the programs available through the school system I would check out this link:
If you have any ther questions about the area in general or the home buying process here in North Carolina (it's different from NY which I'm also familair with) feel free to contact me through my profile here on Trulia, I'd be happy to speak with you.
I wish you luck with your search, with your move.
The School district link is http://www.chccs.k12.nc.us
They have a link to the Exceptional children program at
Please let me know if there is any way I can be of assistance.