There are several factors you need to consider. Do you want to own or rent? Will you be working or staying home with the little one's? Do you wish to be near NY or perhaps near the beach? And probably most important, whether renting or buying what is your budget? I can help you if you are looking in the bedroom communities within 45 minutes of New York City and can recommend an agent in other areas.
Good luck with your search, I'm sure you will find a great home for your family! Please call anytime if you have any questions or need help finding the right home.
Real Estate Agent
Keller Williams MidTown Direct Realty