I lived in AMLI @ Milton Park for three years. While I enjoyed it, I would not consider it "family oriented." Yes, there are activities for the kids occasionally (4th of July, Halloween) but don't expect to see a lot of kids in the community. There just aren't many. However, the community is very nice. It's clean, quiet, and well maintained. And you'd have to go into more detail as to what you consider "5 star." At best, it's a 3.75. If you're looking for more upgrades and a touch of luxury, then AMLI Northpoint is where you want to be. It's a bit pricier but gives you the hardwood floors, elevators, upgraded appliances, etc. AMLI Northwinds has a ton more kids (3 bedrooms) but doesn't give you as many niceties.