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I once took a spin through Friendship when I pulled off the Southern Tier Expy looking for a public washroom (I didn't find one!). Friendship is a very nice little town, the old houses are very well preserved, and as of 4 years ago there was a cool mom-and-pop grocery in the center of town. There was also a cool New England style town green surrounded by big old houses. When I stopped in it was a late weekday overcast afternoon and the town had an almost creepy empty feeling to it; in reality it's probably just a bedroom town and everyone was at work / at school / or elderly /retired.
Anyway from what I could tell the busy small town life is in the surrounding towns. I finally found a washroom and gas in a nearby town and I can't begin to remember the name (next town over to the west). The nearby town was bustling but it wasn't nearly as nice as Friendship. It doesn't appear that much has happened in Friendship in at least 30-50 years (much as in new development / new industry), which is good if you're a fan of historic preservation. I'm a fan of small towns and I liked how this town wasn't bulldozed by fast food joints and other bad 60's suburban style development.
Cheapness Factors:
* This area of NY is fairly remote, and it doesn't seem like there's a whole lot pushing real estate prices either way. The nearest big cities are Buffalo, Erie, and Rochester; all three of which are relatively cheap compared to the east coast.
* When I worked in Columbus, OH, I met quite a few younger upstate NY'ers who left upstate NY because there are few jobs for the young college educated set.
Sun Feb 17 2008, 19:20