Please contact the Salinas YWCA
1221 South Main Street, Suite 201
Salinas, CA 93901
They'll provide support and can assist you.
There's also a crises hotline # to call 372-6300 at the YWCA. There's someone there 24 hours. These are people who understand your situation and have experience. They can help you with a restraining order.
Do not delay making this call.
Please let me hear back from you so I know you're safe.
Pacific Grove, CA
With the ver limited information you have provided it would be fair to speculate that you may benefit from some solid support. Having an impartial resource that can help you process things may provide you with the clearity you are seeking.
On the surface, if you are genuinely concerned for your safety, it may be you that should make the move to leave......
Good luck to you Sunday, follow your gut instincts - they are our greatest asset.
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You will also want to check with your local laws. They may supersede whatever is in your lease. Sometimes landlords draft leases that are not worth the paper they are written on. Check with your local police department and ask them what the laws are regulating this sort of thing especially if you think there is a chance he may not leave voluntarily.
As a first step and in order for you to do some background research, please review the following document to try and find a match for your specific situation so you have a better idea of what your options are:
This is a very useful document. I would suggest you review it in an environment where you do not feel threatened.
Also, speak with your Landlord. If your boyfriend is not listed as an occupant you have options that the Landlord can possibly assist you with.
Be safe and best wishes to you.