You mentioned that one community avoids the freeway altogether, but you prefer areas a tad further South. The other problem or solution is whether you can take either toll road, to avoid the freeway, but as you know - you have to pay tolls. MY experience with those is that they save a corresponding amount in both time and gas money, so to me, the toll-roads are a "wash", vs. the freeway.
Others, including you, may not be comfortable rationalizing the toll-roads, in such a manner.
So, that's it, either tolls roads, the 5/405, or whether you can navigate surface streets - any faster than the other two. You probably should try driving the proposed route, a couple of different ways, to gauge their eventual suitability, or acceptability.
By the way, make sure that the agent you select has familiarity with the areas you're considering. Many agents on Trulia answer questions and deliberately mislead you, saying things like "I cover all of Orange County", and they really haven't a clue about the area you're interested in. Look on the agent's profiles to see the actual cities they typically serve.
Good luck in sorting out your possible solutions
From personal experience, the extra 15-20 miles will actually give Hubby time in the morning to plan his day at the office and time to unwind while driving home.
Two thirds of your time is spent at home. Home is where the heart is and there's no place like home. Most of the time, going the extra miles in life, is usually worth it!
Good Luck Sherbear and Hubby!
We have found that from my husband's office to the furthest we're willing to commute is 20 miles. That would take us to the SJC/Dana border.
We did look out in the inland empire a few weeks back, and the prices of the homes there boggles the mind, but we also know we're not willing to drive that far.
BTW, I didn't include specifics or numbers which is why I posted under quality of life rather than the home buying section.
Thanks again for a lot of good feedback... either way, like most things in life, there's usually a trade off for the choices we make. :-)
In this NEW economy, numbers speak louder than dreams.
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Really, such a personal matter of taste. A few questions to ask yourself...do you have children that would make getting them before or after school more difficult with a longer commute? Would the price of gas going up be prohibitive to your budget on a longer commute? How long will you be at those jobs and if you were to leave is there one you could get closer to the more preferred community? And finally, what's your personal tollerance for traffic and commute time. Is getting home at 6p a problem compared to 530p?
Best of luck...one of those questions I'm sure you wish you had a crystal ball for...
Buying property nearly always involves "trade offs" that can complicate the decision process.Our recommendation is to view your decision not only from the distance & commute perspective but to truly evaluat the entire event.
Making a list of pro's & con's can help clarify things for you and bring you closer to your real priorities and the right decision. Creating lists of what your new home must have, what you would like it to have but can to without, and what you absolutely don't want the home to have.
On the surface, you may feel there is no reason to be doing this because your main concern is the commute. This may be the case but the process often takes people away from their other needs that should always be kept in mind during an important process.
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Thanks so much, and all the best!
You really do need to make this decision for yourself. If you spend most o fyour time further south then I think you already have your answer as to where you should buy!
I can tell you that I have many clients that work in Orange county which I have sold homes to in Corona, as they were able to get a much nicer home there for their money. Not one of them has said they are unhappy with their decision because of the commute. It adds about 25 minutes to their drive. I think I would choose loving my home over an extra 20-30 minutes on the road. But that is me! I hope it is ok for me to say this on this site but I would also pray about it a bit!
Best of luck to you,
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However, some people like that drive to "come down" from there day. It's one day to wind down before actually getting home and truly enjoying your relaxation time.
Maybe there is something 1/2 way in between both worlds? That way you will only be 15 minutes on either side.
Best of luck and if you need help with anything else, feel free to call or email!
Dawson Ford Garbee & Co., Realtors
On the other hand, I've lived places that I didn't love, and was never truly satisfied with where I lived because the place I really felt drawn to was not where I chose to buy. So you have pros and cons on both sides of this.
My best advice to you would be to consider what is going to cause you the greatest stress as well as the greatest joy. Is a 40-minute commute each way (nearly an hour and a half on the road 5 days a week, equaling more than six hours of commute time being added to each work week and taking that time away from loved ones) going to be offset and counter-balanced by living in a place you LOVE, rather than a place you LIKE? You don't want to buy something you won't be happy with, but you also don't want to sacrifice your quality of life for a house. I wish you the best and hope that all of this consideration brings you clarity about what to do!