As a suggestion try reaching out to: "Melissa Zavala" <firstname.lastname@example.org>. She's also a Trulia member and very active contributor. She's in San Diego but I think she might be able to answer some of your questions. Another thing you could do is place an add on Craigslist in a large city near you. Explain your situation the same way you've done here. There just might be a contractor out there somewhere that sees some value in your property.
I had a Realtor tell me I can't sell it "as is" with this amount of structural issues. The RE professionals talked by John who specialize in distressed property acquistion, rehab and resale sounds like a great idea. Unfortunately this is a small town, 1,200 population, and a small county, 65,000 population so there is a lot we don't have here. Not sure we have that in this area but I will definitely search it out. Thank you for any and all suggestions.
Our motto is the "We buy homes for cash in any condition". This is the type of deal you will probably need in order to get out from under your situation. But do be careful as there are lots of sharks swimming in the distressed property waters who will try to put it too you. Good luck.