I'm a realtor in Mobile (08) and have just dealt with a divorced couple who had to sell their house. If his name is on the deed then he will have to ok the sale. Check with your lawyer first, though. In my circumstance, I represented the couple, separately, and communicated with each of them so they wouldn't have to talk with each other if they chose not to. I negotiated a price that each of them could agree on as well. This kept their sale out of the legal system which was great, because if the judge insists on a sale and the couple can't agree on a price, the courts take it over, the judge appoints a realtor, the realtor gets a 10% commission, and nobody (but the realtor) comes out on top. I would strongly recommend that you get a realtor you're comfortable talking to who is patient and persistent, and get her to list your house for you as well as communicate with your ex. It'll be much less stressful on you and you SHOULD get the same, or more, than if you sold it yourself!!! Good luck!