Here is the deal. Don't look at "defining" just what you are "going to use the 3.5% seller assistance for". Instead look at it this way, Determine your TOTAL CASH TO CLOSE and then subtract the seller contribution.
+ Closing Costs
- Seller Contribution
= Total Cash Required
I hope this makes sense.
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