Another thing you need to check on if you owned the home at the time of divorce. Often if the home is given to you in the property distribution; a quit claim deed is done for your ex to you, relinquishing their part of the ownership to the property to you (their ex spouse). That does not mean they are not responsible for the mortgage owed, etc. It just means from that day forward that the quit claim deed is filed, the spouse that it was given to is responsible for all monies owed from that day forward. So, if one was done and your name only was placed on the property, you would be responsible for all taxes owed singly once only your name is listed as sole owner.
I will be praying for you. I wish you well. I feel you and yours.