Unfortunately we have to move again and will be moving from the area. We are moving back to New England, but loved it here!!!!! It is an amazing place for families and to raise kids.
My neighborhood in particular has several folks from NY and NJ. Here is a link to my house if you know anyone that might be looking. I have only positive things for this area.
Neighborhoods will depend on what price range you are in. If I knew that, I could definitely make some recommendations to you. Also important would be what kind of amenities you want in a neighborhood, .e pools, playgrounds, golf course, athletic clubs etc. I don't really have to ask about shopping, medical facilities etc because you'll be close.
Please check out my website shown below. I have placed a lot of good information in it regarding this area and I think you will find it very helpful. If I can be of any personal assistance to you, please don't hesitate to ask.
Best wishes and Good Luck