Its really a matter of personal choice. What areas do you feel comfortable in. Have you visited them with a real estate broker or did you do research on the internet about these areas or driven to any of the areas to time the commute. All the areas that you have listed are very nice and High end. The commute door to door from each of these areas is approx 60 min, exactly what your looking for. Taxes are pricey but you can probably do your own research in that area by going to the Real estate Websites and pluging specific areas. Schools go into Greatschools.net.
Hopefully this helped