I have lived in Oak Ridge since I was a child. Moved away after college, but the minute I was pregnant with our first child; headed home. Lived here another 12 years since and cannot imagine living anywhere else. Granted it is no California or New York, but I have to say I love the 4 distinct seasons, the arts are alive with symphony, opera, ballet, and theater are very active. My parents are still here and plan on staying.
East Tennessee is very different in that the whole area is religious - more churches than you can imagine (one on almost every corner), but at least it is very diverse.
Adventures are here if you look - more than most places and all if not in Oak Ridge - at least within a 20 minute drive (hiking, 4wheeling, rowing, golf, horseback riding, fishing, whitewater rafting/canoeing, a firing range - hunting very active, lots of rivers for boating/skiing, winter skiing, state parks galore, etc.) Spring and fall are absolutely breath-taking.
Hope this helps.
As for housing - stick with Emory Valley or Briarcliff.

Not a realtor - just an Oak Ridger.

I, personally, live in Anderson County. We love living in Anderson County! It is a very diverse community with many learning and site-seeing opportunities. The Hardin Valley (Knox County) community is within 10 minutes to Oak Ridge. This community offers the best shopping and dining area for both communities combined! Tennessee welcomes you!!!!

I've sold 2 homes in Oak Ridge this year. Give me more details on what you're looking for & I can help you more. The schools are excellent.