I am so mentally exhausted with all this , it just seems like there will be no end....... No one can give me a straight answer as to where it is in the lender underwriting or when it will go to usda. If I do not sign this extention , can I go to another lender as I already have all my documentation( I kept copies of everything they required) Please can someone tell me what to do , should I keep going with my current lender or just pullout and start over?
I don't know anything about USDA loans, but Kenny does - he and Hank urge patience and certainly, the competence of your lender is the biggest factor. If the lender is weak, then yes, you might feel some stress.
You should not feel "stressed out" by a real estate purchase - your fiduciaries are at fault, unless you are the type of person who can't relax.
Take a deep breath - as Hank just said below, this is the new world of real estate.... in a shakey economy!
Grab your reps and shake them - better to find out if there's an issue now than when closing date rolls around.