That sounds bad- sorry to hear about your bad experience =( The only things I know about Condo associations and locating the members of the board of directors and mailing addresses is to run a search here http://sunbiz.org/
If you know the condo associations name, you can look it up by Inquire by Name and see a mailing address... I do this sometimes when I can't find the docs! If it's a legit HOA or Condo Association, they should be registered here on http://www.sunbiz.org
Hope that helps some...