Out here on the left coast,
1.) the Banks do not record a deed, they aren't even interfacing with anyone on this.
2.) the Title Company is responsible for sending the documents to the County Recorder, and
3.) that process can take 4-10 weeks depending on how busy everyone is.
I would not suggest suing the County Recorder and the Bank is probably going to ignore you.
good luck and may God bless
BTW, if you tried to do this all without some sort of closing vendor, atty or title company, etc, you are, frankly, nuts.