Hi Natalie,

I agree with some of my colleagues here. You should have another agent go over what you have signed with the other broker so they can see if you are obligated to use her or not. Generally there is a time limit (as set in the contract) on how long you are required to use that agent/broker for that property/offer. There are other factors involved (like procurring cause) which an agent you trust can explain to you.

However, if your agent works for a very big broker here in San Diego they will probably let you our of your contract if you go talk to the office manager. Frankly the big guys don't like the bad PR.

Meet with an agent to go over what you have signed and then meet with the broker or office manager to discuss getting out of your contract.

Best of Luck.

Christa Borellini
Prudential California
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When reading your story, there are many other questions that I would have to *better* answer your question, such as...

What is it you're not liking about your agent? Has she failed to deliver on promises? Can you substantiate that she has not provided the services that she should as your agent?

Also... what happened with the previous offer you made? Was it the fault of the lender, the seller, or yourself as to why the offer "fell through?"

I recommend what others here have also said... get a referral to another reputable, trustworthy real estate agent in your area and share with them your story so that they can ask the right questions, and really give you the right information on what to do. Oftentimes these situations are very complex, but in the end, you need to do what is right for *you*, and working with someone you just do not like is not a productive situation. Your agent must surely feel the same way, and should let you out of your contract. If not, you should be able to get out of your contract with her if you approach her broker with honesty. Most importantly, document your conversations and your complaints/issues.

Good luck to you, and to be sure the next agent you choose is someone you can work well with - interview more than one agent and ask questions!

hi Natalie

You might consider having a second agent review those papers and advise you. An agent with experience and access to company resources would be very helpful. You might also consider a discount agency like Redfin- the rebate would be some compensation for the stress you've suffered.
http://www.redfin.com/stingray/do/about_agents#SanDiego

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Best wishes

Natalie -

I agree that the best first step is to meet with agent's broker (assuming she is not a broker) and possibly get reassigned with another agent in the office. You need to review all the documents you signed and look for writing that outlines the commitment to her as your agent. If you are uncomfortable with approaching the broker (or if she is a broker), I would recommend reviewing your documents with a real estate attorney.

I am sorry your experience was not satisfactory and wish you the best on getting the home you wanted.

CJ

I feel bad for you. I would recommend speaking with her office manger.