I am a native of Fairfield County, CT but I know many people who are from Bergen County, NJ and Westchester, Putnam and even Dutchess County, NY. Most people decide between CT/Westchester and NJ/Long Island by which train station they work closest to. People in Wall Street come into Penn Station and take New Jersey Transit or LIRR to get there. People who are commuting to Mid-Town come into Grand Central which is fed by Metro-North.
When my family decided to move (we lived in Darien and Trumbull) we moved way down the shoreline to Madison which still had a large population of NYC Commuters. As simple as it sounds, pick your train station and follow the lines out. Towns like Westport, Fairfield, Southport, CT are beautiful but you'll pay waterfront prices. Trumbull, Wilton, etc... are one layer in from the water and more reasonable. Westchester County is also very expensive, so maybe going to Putnam or Dutchess will make more value sense.
Of course, most communities in LI (Cold Spring Harbor, Garden City, etc..) are just as beautiful and accessible to the city. Same with Jersey and towns like Upper Saddle River and the surrounding towns.
You have so many options, and so many transportation choices. Most of these towns are all populated by NYC commuters and have very strong school systems, good safety records and all of the other desirable features buyers look for. At the end, take the location that will allow you the simplest access to and from work so you can spend as much time with your family as possible.
It's great that you know what you are looking for but really hard to pin it down, or trust any one person's judgement, you can use our site do a search across hundreds of communities within a three hour radius of NYC. Enter commute time, lifestyle choices, price and a bunch of other details and we'll show you very detailed and insightful narrative profiles AND most importantly connect you with a seasoned, provened agent in that area to do a house search for you and support you through the choosing and buying process. Good luck, it's exciting!
The schools were great (I think I learned a lot, anyway), there is a town summer recreation program, and the town has fewer than 6,000 residents. How big a house are you looking for? How much of a setback from the curb are you looking for, and what size lots? Carlstadt lots run between 35 and 50 by 100.
I recommend the Malba, Whitestone area of Queens. The commute is a relatively 40 - 60 min commute, based on who you speak to. From Penn Station to the Broadway Station on the LIRR - only 40 minutes.
I don't know what your budget is but it seems to be a great area for children w/ lots of detached houses, yards. I've attached an older article from NYTimes (1998) but it still accurately describes the area.
Let me know if you need further help.
Google images: https://www.google.com/search?q=westfield,+NJ&es_sm=93&a
Rockville Centre is a great village for commuting to the city. It's on the "Babylon Line" ...no tranfering.
Award winning schools, every type of restaurant, beautiful parks and recreation areas, and just a wonderful community of residents . (And just 10-15 minute drive to Long Islands BEST beaches!)
I don't know whether you have embarked on your search but I grew up in Jersey City and summered at the Jersey Shore during my youth. I wanted nothing more than to raise my family in southeastern Monmouth County.
The towns of Spring Lake and Sea Girt have price points reflective of Greenwich and Mamaroneck, however, there are many alternatives with lower price points. These towns have terrific, family oriented characteristics. They include Manasquan, Birelle, Spring Lake Heights, Avon by the Sea, Belmar, Bradley Beach and Wall Township. Having raised 3 children here, I suggest you seriously consider a move to southeastern Monmouth County.
If I may be of any assistance to you and your family in your search, please do not hesitate to contact me.
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I had the chance to grow up and work on the North Coast of Long Island. The commute varies but is nothing short of flawless with LIRR running constantly. If you are interested in hearing more about this area I can tell you from personal experience how great of an opportunity it was to grow up in such an amazing place.
Thanks and look forward to hearing back from you!
Please contact me if you would like to tour lower Westchester where average commute times are between 20-50 minutes depending on your chosen location. Greenwich CT is one of the priciest neighborhoods in the country, so don't feel defeated. There are many more affordable options within Westchester county and young families find starter homes here all the time.
As I'm sure you are aware, there are many factors that go into pricing so it seems ineffective to typify each town via blog post as there are pro's and con's to every location - walkability, taxes, school ratings, commute time, move in readiness, etc. Many of our towns have a distinctive characteristic as well, whether you're looking for a historic river town, a bustling suburban city or something in between.
My office is in Bronxville, a 30 minute commute from the city, but I cover most of lower Westchester including Tuckahoe, Eastchester, Scarsdale, Hartsdale, Harrison, Ardsley, Irvington, Tarrytown, Pleasantville, Dobbs Ferry, Hastings-on-Hudson, Larchmont, New Rochelle, Pelham, Port Chester, Rye, Thornwood, West Harrison, Valhalla and White Plains. Please call me if you would like more info on any of these areas.
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Wow you are getting alot of responses, so let me add one more. I live and work in Westchester in the Rye area and think it is a great place to live. Like anything, the community you choose to live will depend on several factors. Commute time to city, importance of schools, price, taxes are all very important factors that will help narrow your search.
While their is no one right answer, I think you need to seriously consider your commute time. Their are plenty of great schools in all the comunities that have been mentioned but travel time has a big impact on family time. I have found that most of my clients in the past have put about 45-55 minutes commute cap. After an hour, it starts getting where many start wondering if it is worth it. But please keep in mind I am just reflecting what my own clients have said.
The last piece you should consider is how all of these communities have handled the changing market in regards to resale. The stronger communities show up in difficult times because they tend to hold their value better. Well if you ever have any questions about this part of Westchester always feel free to visit my website at http://www.andrewrogovic.prudentialrand.com. Good luck.
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What about Bayside, Queens? It's a short drive to the Upper West Side by car and also accessible to all of Manhattan by train and subway.. I recently came across a detailed description online at the NY Times:
We lived in Manhasset, next to Great Neck, Port Washington areas, which can be pricy. You go a little out, New Hyde Parke, Roslyn Heights, Westbury, Bethpage (we had great time taking kids biking there, watching the different kinds of turtles in the stream), and then you can go to the Hamptons for summer afternoons.
Hop onto the train, it gets you right to the city.
Let me know if you have questions.
I grew up in Bronxville, NY in Westchester Cty. It is a grat place to raise kids. 125 in the graduating classes in HS, great community, nice homes but also expensive. There are some more reasonable houses in the neighboring communities of Tuckahoe and New Rochelle. The communte to NY (Grand Central is about 30mins. The Jersey Shore is also very nice especially if you are going all the way to Wall Street.
My advice is to look at where in NYC you are going to work and then draw a 15-30 mile circle around it and look at the communities that fall inside. Commuting is a challenge...talk to agents in the area and people who do it every day...25 years ago I moved to Atlanta...talk about traffic! I love i there but would never work more than 15 miles from my office. Good Luck!
Some great family type town with an easy commute to NYC cam be found on The South Shore of Long Island, There is Lynbrook, Malverne, Valley Stream, Rockville Centre, Oceanside just to name a few that you might want to consider, they all have an easy commute to NYC. I would suggest that you check out the different areas take a drive around and get a feel for the neighborhoods.
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