Scott is right with your criteria you may want to think about Cape Coral or Fort Myers. I live in Cape Coral and have 3 daughters in the school system. I have been very happy with it, and love Cape Coral. We have school choice in the state of Florida.School choice allows you to attend a school of choice, rather then one dictated by your location. We have a grading system and information on school choice at the lee county school board website http://www.lee.k12.fl.us/home.asp
If you are not already working with an agent I would be happy to help you find a home that meets your needs. Here is a link that will allow you to search properties available in our mls. http://www.nancyd.listingbook.com
Let me know if I can help,
Nancy Doyle http://www.nancydrealtor.net
Cape Coral would probably be the best fit for you. If you would like me send you listings of available properties that may interest you, please feel free to drop me an email or call.
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Bonita is a great place and the further south you live in Lee county the better the schools tend to be. The only issue is you will not find a home that meets your criteria in Bonita. Bonita at its furthest point is only 10 miles to the beach and is a highly desirable location in SW Florida. My next choice would be S Ft Myers or Cape Coral, you can find what your looking for in either of those locations. Give me a call so I can get some more info from you and put together some listings.
Scott Riddle, (CSP) Certified Short Sale Professional
Sand Castle Realty Group