I see that you are considering the Pittsford area. I have lived and worked in the Pittsford area my whole life. Coincidentally, I have just purchased a home on Conesus Lake in Livonia. Pittsford is an active town that offers all sorts of possibilities to connect with people like yourself. I would suggest that you can investigate community â€˜doingsâ€™ by visiting the town website: townofpittsford.org. The Pittsford Recreation Center has many offerings that may help you meet people with similar interests http://www.townofpittsford.org/home-recreation.
The local colleges have many events that may interest you. For the Arts Center at Nazareth College, visit: artscenter.naz.edu. For events at St. John Fisher College, visit: http://www.sjfc.edu.
The local newspaper, Brighton-Pittsford Post lists local events. The local places of worship always offer events for fellowship. I wish you well with your search in Pittsford and hope that you find it a community that will fit your needs. I would be glad to help you get to know the town better.